8.17.2012

the simple things {food coloring + water}

there are some days that we go bonkers.
we want something new, but make do with the old.
so there are days i pull out the simple things...water is almost always involved.
today i handed them a box of food coloring and sent them outside while sister was napping.
they played for 2 hours.


somewhere in there i added a can of shaving cream.
that always adds large amounts of fun, for some reason. that foamy fluff is like gold around here.
lost in a land of green slime, they imagined it was a pool of toots (surprise, surprise, boys talking about bodily functions) and giggled endlessly as they sloshed and splashed.
the 'after' shaving cream photos didn't happen, but they were epic. outdoor-hose-down cleanup was required.

this was the point when i got hosed and realized it was time to put the camera down and join the fun :)



when in doubt, go simple.
(and dye your hands and feet green :)

8.15.2012

the sweetness {big brother & his sister}

this is one of my favorite series of photos.
not because the compositions are perfect (which they aren't)
or because the background is picturesque (eek, there are trash cans in sight)
but because it's so normal.
normal and beautiful and sweet-heart-melting.

this is our usual.
big brother tending to his sister. carrying her, helping her, taking off her shoes.
putting her in her high chair and making sure she is buckled in.
serving her lunch before anyone else.
reading her books and picking up her toys.
it's the kind of sweetness that i often see from across the room, but don't get to capture.
their friendship is oh-so special, and he cares for her in a way that can only be described as a pure and humble servant.
he is shining the love of Christ with every move.
it's a treasure to my soul.


 

8.13.2012

the free teepee {and the failed DIY tutorial}

i've been seeing teepee's everywhere.
on fun instagram feeds. on pinterest. in my son's imagination.
but it's far down on the to-so list.
far.
far down on the budget.
very far.
i just knew there must be a way to make one for free.
in fact, i feel this is true about most projects. they might not be perfect, but sometimes i'm not going for perfect. just completion :)

enter brain inspiration.
and me + 3 kids in a local neighbor's giant bamboo forest.
and the largest cutting sheers known to man.
and me + 3 kids dragging 9 bamboo poles, each 14 feet long.
it was far from inspiring...and much more closely related to insanity

there's nothing a mini-van can't load up and haul home.
14 foot bamboo poles proved it.

there are various DIY tutorials that i found.
the "drill holes and string rope" looked simple and picturesque.
the reality was more like a 3 ring circus of twisting and turning bamboo and instantly knotted and tangled rope.
grrr. clearly i chose the wrong tutorial.
we eventually ended up teetering atop a 12 foot ladder and finagling the L O N G  14 foot legs with large amounts of irritation...and a whole lot of "make it work"


and voila. it was so huge and awesome, there was no way to cover it with any of my original seamstress/pinteresting ideas.
and so it sat.
 it looks like this for several days...
all naked and skeleton like.

and then one day, 3 huge drop cloths disappeared from my husband's tool bench. i have no idea where they could have gone...but i'm sure they would have made a great teepee covering :)


8.11.2012

the new do {bangs and such}


since my gal's hair began like this:

all cute and short and sweet...

i haven't wanted to cut it.
so we do clips and ponys and pigtails.
adorable.
and then we had a day when she refused to wear anything at all. 
i realized her long, lovely locks are right in her lovely eyes.


hellooo bangs.

swoon.

8.10.2012

pure sweetness {siblings}

one of my favorite moments ever. 
i asked them to stand together so i could snap a picture of all three...a rare sighting these days.
but emery didn't want to stand...she wanted to hug.
not a quick little usual hug...it delayed.
she moved from one brother to the other.
the brothers were awwwing and smiling like i've never seen. 
i love little spontaneous displays of sweetness. she adores her gu-gu's in such a special way. 
("gu-gu" is chinese for brother...one of only two words she says without prompting)


7.26.2012

gotcha day party awesomeness {attack of the lace doily}

i've been dreaming of emery's gotcha day all summer. i wanted a lovely evening with kids and sweet friends and family and emery...and ice cream. lots and lots of ice cream :)

what started as a simple idea, soon went slightly lace wild and i found myself knee deep in doilies, piles of estate sale milk glass, and the cutest little party. with a small budget, i was able to use a lot of what i already had on hand, coupled with fast delivery from an awesome etsy shop called Whachuneed (she sells doilies and SO much more), as well as my sweet sister in love who helped me pull it all off.

i spray painted old stuff, hung indoor photos outside, and strung more doilies than i'd like to admit. (i originally saw this doily banner on pinterest. it's much more time consuming than i had hoped, but i loved the way they looked). in the end, i nearly passed out from exhaustion (true story. i have no idea what balance is. i'm all or nothing. you don't want to meet me on a "nothing" day :)

and her special night? better than i could have ever planned. wonderful and relaxed and filled with delightful friends and family. i kept seeing emery bopping around., buzzing through the crowd, going from friend to friend...eating piles of doritos and countless sprinkles. she drank from nearly every stray glass of lemonade and i rarely caught a photo of her standing still. it was just the way it's supposed to be.




 FYI, chalk paint is one of our favorite things. but this was the first time i tried it in spray bottles. maybe i bought the wrong kind of bottles? but they were a sad disappointment. only one of three worked. but we ended up filling them with water and they were just as fun :)

a little before and after...
this was our backyard on the day we bought this house in april 2012 (a foreclosure property which had been vacant for over a year)...you can't see it in these pics, but the weed were literally 3 feet high.

this past weekend, my hubby installed a new fence (on the right side) and we worked hard to make it look like a real backyard. i also made a (free!!) tepee (from bamboo and old drop cloths) and hung tulle valences i found for $1 each at an estate sale. score!!

i was delighted to see that the kids LOVED the tepee and valences! i kept smiling all evening to see them running in and out :)
 i printed a book of all of my instagram photos recently from snapfish. it turned out SO well! the photo quality printed so much clearer than i was anticipating and with a 50% off coupon, i printed 1,000 photos for $70. not exactly in the budget, but i was so glad i finally did it :)
ps. that's my sweet sister in law in the top left, who my kids call "la-la". she is the sweetest, most wonderful, kind and creative person. she and my brother live less than a block away. it's amazing to be neighbors with them!!

 emery is obsessed with doing "cheers" when she is eating something fun :)
 oh how i adore her in her blue chinese garb!!
 this big brother spent most of the evening saving earth worms :) he has such a tender heart.
 and this little gem? that's emery's lovely gal-pal, isabelle. they are the same age, but emery came home in july and isabelle this past winter. to have a dear friend with similar language needs, medical past, and a hilarious, spunky personality...well, it's quite fun to see them together. they have so much in common...even their voices and tempter-tantrums are alike :) oh and they both clearly love homemade jolly rancher lollys and ride-on toys :)

7.25.2012

gotcha girl {1 year anniversary)

i can still feel the weight of her small 13lbs. frame. i can see her sweet and solemn expression. it's a day that is forever etched into my memory. after 3 years of longing and hoping and praying... i was speechless. literally. those first moments are indescribable. i studied every single centimeter of her face. her eyes. her lips her nose. staring and memorizing so hard, i could feel my eyes needing to blink, but i just couldn't take my eyes off of her for even a moment. i was so in awe of her, i couldn't even think of anything to say. when i tried, i just kept gasping for air. as if she was so incredible, it was hard to breath. finally i whispered, through tears, "i love you! i love you! i love you! i love you!" over and over and over. i get choked up even thinking of those first precious moments. seeing her in person for the first time was unlike anything i've ever experienced. it was mesmerizing and breathtaking and truly a day that changed me, deep into my soul.

so much has happened since gotcha.

more than this little blog can ever say.
there is so much that happens in real life that will never get posted. it just can't be translated.

if you've read this blog for any amount of time, or you know us in real life, you know i've shared a few of the challenges. a lot of those won't ever make the blog either...because they sound crazy. trauma and grief and healing are often unpredictable. how and when they happen can't be predicted and the behavior that results during those moments is unique to each child and family. at times, it's a long road.

but i can't ever describe the joy that this little girl has brought to our family. we marvel at her...at everything about her. the long road doesn't feel long when this little lady is bopping through the house. she dances and sings and mimics everything. she puts on makeup and puts away dishes. she sweeps the floor and organizes family tea parties. she feeds the puppy and soothes her brothers when they get hurt. she draws lovely pictures and carries a purse everywhere she goes. she stands on a stool an helps me make every meal. she has faced enormous challenges but never gives up. i just can't believe i get to be her mom. God created her with such awesomeness in mind.
she is so incredibly smart and kind and thoughtful and silly. strong and feisty and determined. patient and gentle and able to comprehend things that we've never told her. she is remarkable.

in honor of her first year home, i've been collecting a few photos from each month, including the only baby pictures we have. enjoy :)

may 26th, 2010 (her birthday) - july 25th, 2012



1st birthday, May 26, 2011 with the doll we sent her.


Gotcha Day!!! July 25, 2011 

HOME!!! August 3, 2011 

1st day together at home

learning to sit up

September 26, 2011: cleft palate surgery



December 28th, 2011: cleft lip and nose reconstruction
these pictures make me all teary. such a bittersweet day.

july 25, 2012: Gotcha Day Anniversary Party!!


(there are lots of past posts found here...read only if you have a few hours to spare :) i'm realllly wordy :)

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